Slutty vs. Satisfied

Dear Helen, so lately i have come to the conclusion that i love (good) sex. and well, in this day and age, i am constanly reminded how important it is to keep safe during the act or acts. My question is: How long should you wait before engaging in the act. (10 dates, 3 weeks, what is the proper meaasure so I don't come off looking like a slut and a respectiable mate!?!?) -Samantha

Dear Samantha:
Since each person has different beliefs and views on sex, I can't tell you to wait a certain amount of days before sleeping with someone. What I would say is listen to what your mind and body are telling you, and if you feel the time is right then go for it. But, as you mentioned, it's definitely important to be safe and if you're not at the point where you can openly discuss STDs and protective measures with your partner, then maybe you aren't ready.
At best, have fun...

(Since I'm new to this, feel free to click on the comment button below and give additional advice, especially if you think your advice is better)