Friday, May 21, 2004

Time to fall in love?

Dear Helen: is it okay for to fall in love with someone else whilst your old love is crying still - falling in CA

Dear Falling:
Well I think we've all either had that old love or have been that old love and it's not an easy situation for either person. If you believe you've moved on then you need to live your life to the fullest. Having said that, your old love, if you're still in contact will be hurt, or perhaps devastated that you really have moved on, but that also might give him/her enough reason to finally move on. As much as you may not want to hurt this person, putting your life on hold does nothing for their well-being and you're not doing them a favor by letting them keep hanging on. But since you asked this question, it leads me to believe you may not be ready to be in love with someone else.

2 comments:

turboh8 said...

maybe they just date too many people to keep track and they don't know when people love them still. Its like they are on a fast car moving away from where that other person is standing. either rubber bands or its flies away like a kite. It happens. I've seen it in my life.

Clare said...

Poly? Thats sooo 1973